A friend was recently invited to a pre-wedding event in the dining room of a local country club. The invitation included an extensive dress code, something I had never heard of before. Here it is in its boldfaced entirety:
DRESS CODE
The Club expects the attire of its Members and guests to be in keeping with the generally accepted standards prevalent in comparable Clubs. All persons entering the Club are to be appropriately dressed for the occasion. The Club reserves the right to deny access to the facilities to anyone dressed improperly. The following guidelines assist Members and guests in maintaining a standard of good taste that is necessary to maintain the dignity of the Club.
ACCEPTABLE GOLF COURSE ATTIRE
All clothing should be changed in the locker room. Soft spikes or non spiked athletic shoes are required for all golfers. Women’s shorts and skirts are acceptable provided the outer seam measures no less than 18 inches and is no more than 5 inches above the knee. NO DENIM ALLOWED. Sleeveless shirts must have collars. Men’s shirts must have a collars and must be tucked in at all times. Shorts must be within 4 inches of the knee. Banded shirts and full buttoned shirts that are evenly hemmed may be untucked.
ACCEPTABLE CLUBHOUSE ATTIRE
Denim is not permitted in the dining room or on the course at any time. No stocking or bare feet in the dining areas.
UNACCEPTABLE ATTIRE
Denim, cut-offs, baseball hats worn backwards, t-shirts, cargo shorts, warm up and athletic wear, hooded sweatshirts, flip flops and sandals.
Of course I had to research the phenomenon. Was it true that these strict rules were really “generally accepted standards prevalent in comparable clubs”?
It turns out that some clubs are even stricter. The code above bans all shorts from the dining room.
Were there codes from the beginning, or just when clothing in general became more casual? In some commentaries, I read that clubs were trying to encourage the look of “old money,” presumably the aesthetic of original members (or what the original members were imagined to be).
Do the rules enforce modesty? If we take this photo taken at the Scranton PA club as an indication, apparently, they do not. No skirt length rules for the club house! Or might this dress qualify as shorts?